Family Taunts After Canada Return Viral Reddit Post: After staying in Canada for 5 years, when he did not get PR, the 26 year old youth returned to India. But here the taunts of his own family broke his courage. The young man's viral post sparked a huge debate on social media.
Viral Reddit Post: Every year thousands of Indian students dream of going abroad and making a better future. But not every story is of success. Recently, the story of a 26 year old Indian youth is being discussed on social media. After spending five years in Canada, he was unable to obtain Permanent Residency (PR) and was forced to return to India. He had hoped that upon returning home he would be reunited with his family and loved ones, but the reality turned out to be completely different from his expectations.
Questions and interference in personal life started as soon as I returned home.
The young man told that the first thing that troubled him after returning to India was her constant interference in his personal life. Wherever he went, people asked the same question, "When are you getting married?" At the age of just 26, the repeated discussions about marriage left her mentally exhausted. She says that she felt that people were only judging her based on social expectations rather than understanding her circumstances.
People's behavior changed as soon as earnings stopped
According to the young man, during his stay in Canada, he used to send money home every month. Along with the family expenses, he also provided financial help in EMIs. Not only this, he also started repaying the education loan taken for his studies himself. But after returning to India, when his regular income stopped and he started looking for a new job, he noticed a big change in people's behavior. He felt that as long as he was earning and sending money, everything was fine, but now his importance was no longer the same as before.
Family matters became the biggest pain
The young man told that he suffered the most from the things he heard in his own house. According to him, his mother said that perhaps he did not work hard enough to achieve PR and going to Canada proved to be in vain. The young man says that this thing hurt him more because he himself is repaying the loan taken for studying and living abroad. In such a situation, ignoring the entire struggle and evaluating his efforts only on the basis of results left him extremely disappointed. See the viral Reddit post below-
Amidst mental pressure, we got encouragement from social media.
In his post, the young man admitted that at times he became so mentally broken that wrong thoughts came to his mind. However, he also admitted that that path was not right. A large number of people supported him on social media. Many users advised that instead of paying attention to what others say, you should focus on your career. Some people said that circumstances change with time and after getting a good job, the same people also change their attitudes. Many users advised him to move to a new city and make a fresh start and maintain patience. This story brings out the feelings of not just one young man, but of many young people who are trying to manage themselves between career, financial pressure and social expectations after returning from abroad.
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