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Father's wish: Happy life for daughter

Every father wishes that his daughter should be happy in life, move ahead with confidence and make her dreams come true. Parents make every effort to provide good education and facilities to their daughters. But, studying in a good school and getting good marks alone is not the whole picture of parenting. Love, trust, independence and self-confidence are equally essential to strengthen the personality of the child.

Role of father: Divya Mittal's advice

Father's contribution is very important in the upbringing of daughters. On this topic, 2013 batch IAS officer Divya Mittal shared a video on social media, in which she has shared some important things for fathers of daughters. He says that many times a father's love is not clearly visible to children, so it is necessary to express some feelings in words.

Do these 3 things with your daughter

1. Discuss your daughter's dreams

According to Divya Mittal, a father should not talk to his daughter only about her studies, exams and marks. They should also know what she wants to do in the future and what is the importance of her dreams.

Find out from your daughter about the kind of work she likes, what she wants to achieve, and how she sees her future. It is not necessary that his dream seems practical to the father. It may be possible that his choice is something that will take time to understand.

Therefore, the most important thing is to listen to him carefully and give him the opportunity to express his opinion. When the daughter feels that the family gives importance to her dreams, her self-confidence increases.

2. Include daughter's opinion in small decisions,3. assure daughter

Take daughter's opinion even in small decisions

To make the daughter self-reliant, it is necessary that she be given the opportunity to express her views right from childhood. Divya Mittal advises that daughter's opinion should also be taken in small decisions of the house.

For example, what to buy at a festival, what to cook at home or how to prepare for a special occasion—it is important to know his preferences in these matters.

Although these decisions may seem small, they can have a profound impact on a child's self-confidence. This develops the daughter's habit of expressing her preferences and opinions.

Tell your daughter that you trust her

Many fathers love their daughters very much, but are unable to express their feelings. Divya Mittal says that a father should tell his daughter that he has faith in her.

Even a small thing said by the father can have a deep impact on the daughter's self-confidence. When she feels that her parents believe in her, she is able to face difficult situations.

Father's trust: makes daughter strong

According to Divya Mittal, merely providing facilities to the daughter is not enough to make her strong. He also needs freedom to express his views at home, family support and father's trust to fulfill his dreams.

When a daughter gets the opportunity from childhood to express her opinion and be involved in decisions, she develops self-confidence. This confidence can later help him in taking important decisions to his life and facing challenges.

Therefore, with daughters it is not enough to just worry about their studies and future, but listening to their dreams, valuing their opinions and trusting them is also an important part of father parenting.