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A sexologist addresses common concerns about sexual health, explaining that consultations are confidential, non-judgmental and often focus on counselling, education and therapy rather than medicines. The expert also advises couples in sexless marriages to prioritise communication and emotional intimacy, and reassures cardiac patients that fulfilling intimacy extends beyond intercourse.

I am 29 and have some queries, but fear visiting, thinking, what is the role of a sexologist and how do they treat?

Very important point you have raised here. Most people think the same, and being a taboo topic, remain closed and prefer to suffer in silence. But the fact is, a simple consultation with a sexologist can change your life miraculously. An experienced sexologist will listen to you empathetically and in detail. Privacy is always maintained, and as "we do not judge you," it gives you a platform to express whatever is on your mind. After figuring out the root cause of your problem, you are guided with the right knowledge, as most people learn through porn. It helps one understand the underlying problem and its depth. Needful treatment or therapy is explained, if needed. It focuses on your relationship with yourself and your partner too. In the case of couples, couple therapy works great. Ex 1: ED doesn't always need Viagra. It can be due to performance anxiety or relationship discord. Ex 2: Vaginismus doesn’t mean she doesn't allow the partner to perform. Both cases can be solved with genuine insights without medicines.

We have been married for 5 years. After my first miscarriage, and now because of job timings and shift duties, we have been unable to have sex for almost 1 year. I am worried about our sexless married life. What can we do?

I agree, sex is the greatest glue for married life. But a healthy relationship does breathe without sex too. There are situational factors right now for you. What matters more is mutual love, respect, and trust. Relationships go on a roller coaster when communication is missing. So, both must talk and express themselves to each other. Emotional intimacy matters more than physical intimacy. You both must figure out some day and carve out some time for yourselves. One needs to choose for oneself. Prioritize and plan. You know your schedules better.